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Writing about ADHD, autism and AuDHD life, work, relationships, burnout, inclusion, technology and doing things differently.

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Your RSD is not my problem

This might sound brutal, but I stand by my point. Your feelings are real, and your experience matters, but managing those feelings is ultimately your responsibility.

We ask the world to meet us where we are. We request the accommodations we need to navigate an overwhelming world. So, when neurotypical people make that effort, it seems reasonable that we try to meet them where they are, too.

I should be clear: this is about responsibility, not dismissing anyone’s experience.

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Sorry it’s been a while

Honestly, I didn’t much feel like posting. Redundancy sort of does that to you.

As in, completely kills your motivation, does an absolute number on your mental health, leaving you stressed and worried about money, where life is going, what you will do next, sort of does that to you.

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Patience is Autistic

When it comes to TV shows featuring autistic characters, I approach them with a mix of curiosity and caution. The risk of stereotypes and superficial depictions is all too common, so when I first saw the advert for that series, I wasn’t keen. But after seeing more glowing recommendations than negative ones, I decided to give it a go. Here’s what I thought.

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My Budget Analysis

This long-delayed and much awaited budget is what I’m discussing in the news this time around, as it affects all of us. With most budgets, it gives, and it takes away. In this case, mostly takes.

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