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Support that works with your brain, not against it

ADHD coaching with Sonay, assistive technology training with James, and specialist support for ADHD mums.

What we do

Divergently Being is a neurodivergent-led business founded by Sonay and James.

Sonay provides ADHD coaching for adults, alongside specialist coaching and support for ADHD mums. James provides assistive technology training and practical systems support. Together, we also offer Divergently Reset, speaking and support for organisations.

Our approach is practical, neuroaffirming and built around how people actually think, work and live.

Does this sound familiar?

  • You have ADHD and want support that fits how you actually think and work.
  • You have software, tools or systems available but need help making them useful day to day.
  • Motherhood has changed how manageable your ADHD feels.
  • You are looking for practical neurodivergent support for an employee, team or organisation.

Find the right support

ADHD Mum Support

One-to-one and group coaching for ADHD mums navigating overwhelm, identity, sensory load, executive function, relationships and work.

Explore ADHD coaching for mums

ADHD Coaching

Experienced, neurodivergent-led ADHD coaching with Sonay for adults navigating work, burnout, confidence, communication, executive function and major transitions.

Explore ADHD coaching

Assistive Technology

Patient, practical training with James to help you use workplace technology and systems around the way you actually think and work.

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For Organisations

Employee coaching, training, speaking and practical support for organisations seeking to better support neurodivergent people and parents.

Explore organisational support

Need coaching and practical systems support?

Divergently Reset brings Sonay’s coaching and James’s technology support together, helping you turn insight, tools and workplace recommendations into something usable.

Explore Divergently Reset

Group coaching for ADHD mums

The ADHD Mum Reset

A five-week group coaching programme for ADHD mums who are tired of feeling as though they should be able to hold everything together.

  • Five weeks
  • Live online
  • Five-week programme from November 2026
  • Choose a daytime or evening cohort
  • Mondays 10:30–12:00 UK time
  • Thursdays 18:00–19:30 UK time
  • £399 founding-cohort price
  • Maximum eight per cohort

Across five weeks, we will explore identity, shame, executive function, the mental load, sensory overload, emotional regulation, boundaries and support.

Meet Sonay and James

Sonay speaking at TEDx Beckenham

Sonay

Sonay is an experienced ADHD coach, neurodivergent speaker and Solicitor Advocate with 500+ hours of coaching experience and almost 15 years’ experience across corporate and legal environments. She is ICF-trained and brings lived experience of ADHD and autism to her work.

Meet Sonay
James outdoors

James

James is an AuDHD assistive technology trainer with more than 20 years of IT experience. He provides calm, practical support that helps people understand their tools and build systems around the way they actually think and work.

Meet James

Our three most recently published pieces from Divergently Parenting and Divergently Blogging.

Sonay feeding her baby

What if motherhood is the only thing that feels motivating right now?

What happens when your priorities shift, your motivation changes shape and being a mum becomes the thing that feels most meaningful?

Read the article
Sonay and James together in Rome

When your baby cries in public: autistic parenting, noise and overwhelm

Why a baby crying in public can feel enormous when sensory overload, bus noise and imagined judgement all arrive at once.

Read the article
A dropped kerb at a street crossing

The kerb cut effect

How designing for people who are more likely to be excluded can make everyday life easier for everyone.

Read the article

Not sure what support you need?

You do not need to arrive with a perfectly formed question. Tell us what feels difficult and we can help you identify the most useful starting point.

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