{"id":128,"date":"2024-09-18T09:09:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-18T09:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/divergentlybeing.co.uk\/wp-blog\/?p=128"},"modified":"2026-07-02T16:52:23","modified_gmt":"2026-07-02T16:52:23","slug":"our-first-post","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/our-first-post\/","title":{"rendered":"Our first post"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I was setting up the website, I thought &#8220;I know, let&#8217;s get a blog going&#8221;. My idea was that we could maybe use it as a journal, talk about things that bothered us, things we&#8217;ve thought about, or maybe write about something that needed to be talked about, like Sonay and I do in our podcast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, that was easier said than done. I tried setting up in WordPress, but the design was never quite right. I tried a few different flavours of CMS (content management system), but my design wouldn&#8217;t work there either. And when you&#8217;re autistic and ADHD (AuDHD), you end up getting very annoyed with it very quickly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">That bloody thing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Why won&#8217;t this bloody thing just work?&#8221; I often moaned, although I didn&#8217;t say bloody. You can probably guess what I did say, but for the purposes of keeping this SFW (safe for work), I can&#8217;t. Despite the fact I love a good sweary tirade, but I digress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As it turns out, I was letting perfect be the enemy of good enough. And eventually, I came round to the idea that as long as it works, I shouldn&#8217;t over-think it. When you&#8217;re AuDHD, you tend to hyperfocus on details rather than looking at the bigger picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Content creation paralysis<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of course, setting it up was only half the battle. What to actually write for a post? Well, as many writers are told, &#8220;write what you know&#8221;. So, here I am, writing a blog post, about the annoyances of setting up a blog. It seems very meta, but there we go. It&#8217;s my blog, and I&#8217;ll write what I want to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s possible the song may have said it better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Setting up a blog is a lot more difficult than I thought.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":152,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-128","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-divergently-blogging"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=128"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164,"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128\/revisions\/164"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/152"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=128"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.divergentlybeing.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}